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| Written by Kristen West McGuire | |
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Job 1:8-12
(Job’s children die and his wealth disappears.)
Job 2:4-10; 42:10-17 Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God, and die.”
(Job philosophizes with three onlookers. No details on his wife are recorded.)
And the LORD restored the fortunes of Job, when he had prayed for his friends; and the LORD gave Job twice as much as he had before.
Context: Why do bad things happen to righteous people? The Jews were not the first to ask this question. Because they lacked a pantheon of capricious gods and goddesses to blame misfortune on, Satan is presented here as the architect of evil in the world.
Translation: Hebrew scholars point to the book of Job as the most difficult to translate in the entire Old Testament. The ancient manuscripts are conflicting, and include rare words that appear in no other surviving Hebrew texts. Translators must make educated guesses in many instances. Although it is assumed to have been written after the Babylonian exile because of the content, there is no consensus on its composition date.
Vocabulary: blessed : In Job 42:12, the Lord “blesses” Job using the same term as Job’s wife: barak !
Meditation Job’s wife has an unfair role in this passion play. She shows up as a “bit” character to bear seven sons and three daughters...twice. Her only line is, “Curse God and die.” And in the middle, Job laments that she has turned her face from him. Was Job’s wife a helpmate, or not?
Job gently rebukes her. The implication seems to be that she is wondering what hidden sins are revealed by their suffering. And yet, she is also reminding him that his suffering is real. After this interchange, his words finally begin to address his misfortunes. Job’s wife forced him to deal with reality, not his idealistic hopes in Yahweh’s omnipotence.
What are we to make of her silence throughout the rest of the dialogue? Women in ancient Israel were not the authors of midrash. The absence of feminine wisdom in this book would not have bothered them.
And yet, it bothers me. Do you suppose she scrounged up refreshments for him and his philosophy mates? If he truly was a righteous man, I’m sure this couple shared a few words betwixt and between soliloquies.
This isn’t heaven, for sure. Job’s wife was not encouraging him to denounce God, but insisted that he ditch the rose-colored glasses. We don’t know all the details. But I sure would like to know what portions of his thoughts came from her.
Discussion Questions 1. Many women are thrust into the role of helping family and friends to make sense of the misfortunes of life. It requires a balance between acknowledging reality and hoping in unseen deliverance. How do we build hope?
2. Job’s fortunes were restored. What does it take to develop the tenacity of Job, praising God in both times of plenty and times of want? Where are you now? Did a woman help you get there?
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